I got to go and have a chat with my 95 yo great aunt today at a nursing home in Hudson. She was the youngest in that family, my grandfather was the oldest by ten years. He died a long time ago, but the superager gene may nonetheless be present in that line. Her mom was alive well, well into my life, died in 96 at 98.
Auntie was pretty darn lucid and kind of wry! Though I take sometimes she is not. You age a lot in your 90’s even as a superager I’m sure (or, not “I’m sure”, but “duh”).
There was an agenda. Foremost among a few things:
1. Wanted to know if the guy my mother picked out in the 1924 car shops photo among the 200 or so dudes was great grandpa. “yes, that’s dad” Auntie said. Truly BFD to have identified which person is yours in a 100 yo artifact like that.
2. Wanted to know if Grandma Marx was illegitimate, as my review of the docs on Ancestry suggested. “yes, that’s what we always heard”. Upshot, you don’t have a paternal branch there to navigate at that birth before 1878 …unless you want to do a review of your DNA matches vs the Aurora IL township census sheet for 1880…needle in haystack. BUT DOABLE, if Henry Louis Gates’ show is any indicator for potential success.
3. Question I asked was, “how did your parents meet?” This would have been 1915 probably. She said, “oh I’m sure it was through the Muckenhirn’s, their friends…”
Bullseye. See, I had gone to the Hudson history library last fall and spotted that relationship as extremely consequential, having found the late 20’s shop blacksmith seniority list in a stack and read it for like ten seconds. It had hit me like I had a remote review on the past, like I was a psychic seer. Twas like, I knew instantly that’s why great grandpa moved back to N Hudson from a half a world away, that’s how that happened.
https://zingyskywaylunch.wordpress.com/2022/09/29/cosmic-why-omaha-car-shops-n-hudson/
So you’re sitting there with Auntie and you ask her the question and she gives you this linchpin answer that you didn’t really expect at that moment but you knew was the linchpin answer because you did all the work, you feel like you’re Alex Haley sitting with the griot there on the Gambia River in 1969 or whatever and the griot says, “and then this next guy was Kunta Kinte…”
SORT OF… RIGHT?
Ha. I mean, I ain’t Alex Haley (and ahem there are doubts Haley had that conversation in the way he said…) but that’s the power of that vibe, what that vibe is in composition.